1 Day Ago in Philadelphia: The Story Behind the Timeless Hit “Kiss and Say Goodbye” by The Manhattans

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“Kiss and Say Goodbye”, a classic track from the legendary American R&B vocal group The Manhattans, made waves across the globe in 1976. Released as part of their album simply titled “The Manhattans,” under Columbia Records, this song didn’t just become a hit — it dominated charts worldwide. Launching into the airwaves in March 1976, it soared to the coveted No. 1 spot in the United States, Belgium, Netherlands, New Zealand, and the European Hot 100 Singles chart. Despite missing the top position on the Adult Contemporary Chart, it asserted its reign on every other Pop and R&B Singles Chart in the U.S., marking it as an unmissable anthem of the 1970s.

The brain behind this masterpiece was none other than Winfred “Blue” Lovett, the bass singer and songwriter in The Manhattans. He didn’t just pen the heartfelt lyrics and melody — Lovett also delivered the iconic spoken introduction that bookends the song’s full-length LP and commercial single versions. Reminiscing on his creative process, Lovett revealed his late-night inspiration:

“Everything was there. I got up about three o’clock in the morning and jotted down the things I wanted to say. I just put the words together on my tape recorder and little piano. I’ve always thought that when you write slow songs, they have to have meaning. In this case, it’s the love triangle situation we’ve all been through. I figured anyone who’s been in love could relate to it. And it seemed to touch home for a lot of folks.”

Surprisingly, Lovett initially imagined this tune as a country ballad, envisioning vocalists like Glen Campbell or Charley Pride delivering it. But fate had another plan — he ultimately brought it to life with The Manhattans. The song’s lead vocals feature the stirring voice of Gerald Alston, who steps in right after Lovett’s spoken intro, weaving deep emotion into every note.

The track’s journey to perfection was anything but smooth. The first demo included the backing band, Little Harlem, but producer and arranger Bobby Martin decided to re-record it with the esteemed MFSB at Sigma Sound Studios in Philadelphia, early in 1975. Yet, the release was held back by Columbia Records for over 14 months, a delay that made Lovett uneasy. Voicing his studio perfectionism, he confessed,

“I was critical, a perfectionist in the studio, and there are still parts of it that make my skin crawl. For example, in one place, the background vocals go off pitch. Somehow, though, that didn’t seem to bother anyone else.”

This complex tale of artistry and timing turned “Kiss and Say Goodbye” into more than just a song — it became a heartfelt anthem echoing through decades, a poignant soundtrack to love’s complicated stories that many have lived through and will continue to feel deeply.

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Lyrics

This has got to be the saddest day of my life
I called you here today for a bit of bad news
I won’t be able to see you anymore
Because of my obligations, and the ties that you have
We’ve been meeting here everyday
And since this is our last day together
I wanna hold you just one more time
When you turn and walk away, don’t look back
I wanna remember you just like this
Let’s just kiss and say goodbye

I had to meet you here today
There’s just so many things to say
Please don’t stop me ’till I’m through
This is something I hate to do
We’ve been meeting here so long
I guess what we done, oh was wrong
Please darling, don’t you cry
Let’s just kiss and say goodbye

Many months have passed us by
(I’m gonna miss you)
I’m gonna miss you, I can’t lie
(I’m gonna miss you)
I’ve got ties, and so do you
I just think this is the thing to do
It’s gonna hurt me, I can’t lie
Maybe you’ll meet, you’ll meet another guy
Understand me, won’t you try, try, try, try, try, try, try
Let’s just kiss and say goodbye

(I’m gonna miss you)
I’m gonna miss you, I can’t lie
(I’m gonna miss you)
Understand me, won’t you try
(I’m gonna miss you)
It’s gonna hurt me, I can’t lie
(I’m gonna miss you)
Take my handkerchief, wipe your eyes
(I’m gonna miss you)
Maybe you’ll find, you’ll find another guy
(I’m gonna miss you)
Let’s kiss and say goodbye, pretty baby
(I’m gonna miss you)
Please, don’t you cry
(I’m gonna miss you)
Understand me, won’t you try
(I’m gonna miss you)
Let’s just kiss
And say goodbye

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