About the song

Willie Nelson has long been a figure who defies boundaries—between genres, generations, and even expectations. By the time he took the stage for Austin City Limits in 1983, Willie was already a living legend, his name synonymous with the outlaw country movement that had reshaped American music. Yet, even as he stood at the height of his stardom, Willie’s performances were never about dazzling spectacle or pretense. Instead, they were intimate, authentic, and imbued with a deep sense of humanity.

“Have I Stayed Away Too Long” is one of those songs that encapsulates Nelson’s gift for emotional storytelling. Originally written by Frank Loesser and Sidney Lippman, the song’s reflective lyrics explore themes of love, regret, and time—universal feelings that resonate even more deeply when delivered through Willie’s unmistakable voice. His phrasing, rich with heartfelt nuance, transforms every line into a personal confession.

The live performance from Austin City Limits brings something even more special to the table. Against the warm glow of the iconic Texas backdrop, Willie delivers the song with a quiet vulnerability that makes it feel as though he’s singing directly to you. Backed by his loyal band, including his sister Bobbie on piano, the arrangement is simple yet soulful, allowing every word to land with clarity and weight.

Whether you’re revisiting this gem or hearing it for the first time, this performance is a reminder of why Willie Nelson remains a beloved icon. He doesn’t just sing a song—he invites you into the story, and for a few moments, it’s yours too.

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Lyrics

Have I stayed away too long
Have I stayed away too long
If I came home tonight
Would you still be my darling
Or have I stayed away too long
The love light that shone so strong
Sweet love light that shone so strong
If I came home tonight
Would that same light be shining
Or have I stayed away too long
I’m just outside of town
And I’ll soon be at your door
But maybe I’d be wrong
To hurry there
I’d best keep out of town
And worry you no more
Maybe someone else
Has made you care
Have all of my dreams gone wrong
My beautiful dreams gone wrong
If I came home tonight w
Would you still be my darling
Or have I stayed away too long
If I came home tonight
Would you still be my darling
Or have I stayed away too long

By tam