About the song
Toby Keith’s “Cryin’ For Me (Wayman’s Song)” is one of those rare tracks that manages to blend raw emotion with polished artistry, creating a deeply personal tribute that resonates universally. Released in 2009 on his album American Ride, this song stands out as a heartfelt homage to Keith’s late friend, Wayman Tisdale. For those unfamiliar, Tisdale was not only an accomplished professional basketball player but also an exceptional jazz musician whose vibrant personality left a mark on everyone he encountered. This song captures the pain of loss while celebrating the joy of a life well-lived, offering a poignant reminder of the fragility and beauty of our shared human experience.
From the very first notes, “Cryin’ For Me” establishes an intimate tone, driven by its rich instrumental arrangement. The gentle sway of the saxophone, courtesy of Dave Koz, brings a soulful element that complements Keith’s unmistakable baritone. Unlike some of his more rowdy, honky-tonk anthems, this track reveals a more vulnerable side of the country superstar—a man mourning his friend but also reflecting on the profound connections that define us.
Keith’s storytelling is at the heart of the song, as he recounts the impact Tisdale had on his life. The lyrics are simple yet profound, painted with the kind of honesty that only comes from genuine grief and love. Lines like, “I’m gonna miss that smile / I’m gonna miss you, my friend” cut straight to the core, reminding us of the unique ache that comes with losing someone irreplaceable. Yet, the song isn’t mired in sorrow. There’s a sense of gratitude woven through the melancholy, as Keith acknowledges the privilege of having known Tisdale and the memories they shared.
Musically, “Cryin’ For Me” leans into a bluesy, jazz-inflected style that feels both organic and intentional. The understated production allows the emotions to take center stage, with Koz’s saxophone solo acting as a conversation—almost a eulogy within a eulogy. This interplay of country and jazz reflects Tisdale’s own life, bridging genres and bringing people together in a celebration of music’s unifying power.
What makes this song particularly compelling is its ability to transcend genre. Even listeners who aren’t avid fans of country music will find something to connect with here, whether it’s the universal themes of loss and remembrance or the sheer artistry of the performance. Keith doesn’t just sing; he bares his soul, inviting us to grieve alongside him while also finding solace in the legacy of love and friendship.
For older, more reflective audiences, “Cryin’ For Me” is an especially poignant listen. It taps into the wisdom that comes with age—the understanding that life is fleeting, relationships are precious, and music has the power to preserve what words alone cannot. Keith captures these truths with a grace and authenticity that’s both comforting and cathartic.
In the end, “Cryin’ For Me” is more than a tribute to Wayman Tisdale. It’s a testament to the healing power of music and a reminder of the connections that make life meaningful. Toby Keith has delivered a song that, while deeply personal, speaks to all of us who have loved and lost—and in doing so, he’s created something timeless.
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Lyrics
Got the news on Friday mornin’
But a tear I couldn’t find
You showed me how I’m supposed to live
And now you showed me how to die
I was lost till Sunday morning
I work up to face my fear
While writing you this goodbye song
I found a tear
I’m gonna miss that smile
I’m gonna miss you my friend
Even though it hurts the way it ended up
I’d do it all again
So play it sweet in heaven
‘Cause That’s right where you want to be
I’m not cryin’ cause I feel so sorry for you
I’m cryin’ for me
I got up and dialed your number
And your voice came on the line
With that old familiar message
I’d heard a thousand times it just said
Sorry that I missed you
Leave a message and god bless
I know you think I’m crazy
But I had to hear your voice again
I’m gonna miss that smile
I’m gonna miss you my friend
Even though it hurts the way it ended up
I’d do it all again
So play it sweet in heaven
‘Cause That’s right where you want to be
I’m not cryin’ cause I feel so sorry for you
I’m cryin’ for me
So play your upside down left handed
Backwards bass guitar
And I’ll see you on the other side
Superstar
I’m gonna miss that smile
I’m gonna miss you my friend
Even though it hurts the way it ended up
I’d do it all again
So play it sweet in heaven
‘Cause That’s right where you want to be
I’m not cryin’ cause I feel so sorry for you
I’m cryin’ for me
I’m still cryin’
I’m cryin’ for me
I’m still cryin’
